It’s been very apparent that people have told me that a nice guy never wins and I wonder why? Have ladies been taught to appreciate only the guys that treat them the worst and avoid the guys that treat them the best? What is it about a nice guy that deters women and what is it about a bad guy that attracts women. Haven’t there been enough examples of bad relationships with the wrong guys that women should be experts at the relationship process? Shouldn’t we learn from our mistakes and also learn from the mistakes of others? These are questions that baffle me day to day with women and no woman has been able to answer those questions.
Ladies, just because I am the nice guy doesn’t mean that I am a pushover. It means I don’t want to spend my time with stressing about every little thing and causing you unnecessary turmoil in all cases can be afforded thru proper communication between us. Do you think I am boring because I choose to buy you flowers on any day instead of waiting on Valentine’s day or your birthday? I prefer to make you special everyday I am with you not just birthday, anniversary or Christmas. Is it the fact that I don’t yell, scream, disrespect or cause physical harm to you make me not worthy of your time and attention like this guy over there. Is the fact that I am consistent a problem. What about the fact I will not lie to you so that you never have trust issues at any time we are together. Does my outspoken tone bother? I am just curious about why him instead of me.
Is the fact, that I am you security blanket and you feel since I am so nice that I will always be here so it is ok to lie to me, leave me, lead me on and totally disrespect me because at the end of the day I am the nice guy? It saddens me to know that you are not the woman for me if you cannot appreciate all the wonders that are I. I don’t have time to be arguing with you over foolishness, I would rather love you. I don’t have time to be fighting with you I would rather put that energy into more productive things such as keeping that beautiful smile on your face at all times.
I also would like you to know that I will not be around waiting for you to get your mind right for long. I know my road is less traveled but the results are worth the troubles all you unappreciative women have and will give me until I meet the right one. I am not saying you a bad person but I am saying you are confused and delusional because if you don’t want to be happy, what’s the point? Why would negative energy make you happy anyway? I want to make you better not tear you down. I cannot help the fact that I was taught to respect, love and honor a lady. In my lifetime thus far, I have done that. It saddens me that you were not taught to appreciate that. Please understand this is not a letter of anger but more of confusion and I would implore you to give me answer if you can.
Yours truly,
SOLO