ARE WE DELUSIONAL ABOUT WHAT WE REALLY NEED?

Good day, how are you? I hope that you find this read thought provoking as well as entertaining as you read. This entry is not to bash any particular person or gender but to point out the inconsistencies that I have witnessed or experienced. The question is “Are we delusional about what we really want? This question is apparent in the unhappiness that everyone shares in their life that is fairly synonymous across gender, economic and cultural demographics. It is apparent that we all maybe delusional with our wants and needs according to the fact that we are majority unhappy or unsatisfied with things we have gained or endured in life so far.

Lets discuss relationships, from a male perspective, I mostly think women are delusional because of the abnormal requirements they are placing on the average guy. Women are looking for “Prince Charming”, “The Cat in the Hat,” “The Chester Cat”, “The Great Oz” and any other fairy tale saviors they have been dreaming about all their life. Those fairy tale realities have transcended from the pages they were written upon and circumvented reality to become a reality for most women. Now, most women will say, no, no that’s not me but let me remix the type of delusion that we see in 2012. Women are looking for the “rich guy” or “the Baller” or “the Dope boy” or “the rich businessman” with discretionary income that can swoop and save them from their financial woes without even blinking. Once the now a day prince charming swoops in they have nothing to worry about anymore…right? Well accordingly to the many unhappy women with these Prince Charmings, I would beg to differ they are and were delusional about what they wanted in a man. It seems today, that women have been on quest to find something that doesn’t exist or only exists for them. The one guy that is going to be everything and have money to buy her anything she wants in life plus being respectful, courteous, faithful and so forth. They also forget their obligations to that so-called guy. In all the fairy tales, the princess had things she was going to be doing once she was rescued. She didn’t just get whisked away and she didn’t have anymore responsibilities. Why is it that women are living in such a dream state and haven’t woke up from this fairy tale like Alice and Dorothy did in their stories. Each one of those characters woke up in reality to finally appreciate the great things they had all the time but they had to wake up from the dream. Are women so engulfed with money and fame today that they neglect what’s right and what things matter most?

For guys, I think we go through the same false sense of hope. I am realizing that we think every centerfold or video vixen is the perfect woman for us and that our next woman should be that type of woman. Where did we forget that even though we are not in a fairy tale we are suppose to be derivation of the idols we read anyway in all these books growing up. Men are suppose to be protectors, fearless, courageous, honorable and honest and we were always rescuing the damsel in distress. Where did it go wrong because now we have men that only care about money and less meaningful things? Is it possible that society has warped and tainted our feeble minds that we long for something that does not exist nor something we actually need. Society is a monster and controls so much of our decisions, so is it possible? These are thoughts to think about.

So as you read this are you delusional about what you want? Did you turn away someone that was everything you needed for a false sense of hope for everything you wanted? DO you know what you want or are you just bobbing for apples looking for the right one? Are your views realistic to your future mate?

It comes a point in time, when you look in the mirror and question, “what am I doing?”

Thank you

SOLO